| Location | Ilkeston |
| Age | 0 |
| Cause of Death | Still Birth |
| Date of Birth | 18/07/2008 |
| Date of Death | 18/07/2008 |
| Visitors | 2,645 since 15/08/2008 |
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This is the memorial page of our daughter Shelby-Rose Haywood-Lowe. She was due 18th November 2008 but was sadly stillborn on the 18th July 2008 and on that day our world was crushed forever. She was a much wanted daughter to us,granddaughter to John and Jay,Great granddaughter to Angie and Great great granddaughter to Doreen. And an also much wanted neice and cousin.
The day Shelby-Rose grew her wings,we can remember it clearly. We had only just found out she was a girl on the 14th July so you can imagine just how unfair we found the whole thing,especially as she would be the first girl to be born into the family for 17 years! We pictured christmas with Kayleigh Shelby's mummy bouncing her on her knee and smiling like she could smile no more. We imagined her first words and her whole life,yes we were all very excited. But 18th July changed that for us forever. When she was born,she made no noise but she was the perfect little girl with her mummys nose and possibly eyes and her daddy Adams feet and smile,even when she was born,she looked peaceful and as though she was smiling. She even had tiny, tiny fingernails. She was surrounded with so much love on that day and still is to this day,nearly 4 months on. Her funeral was lovely,the weather held out nice and she even had a limo to take her to the cemetary.
Shelby Rose will always be our special little girl,our first born and she will always be held in our hearts until the day we are all re-united as one big happy family. She bought so much love and unity in her very short time on the earth and for that we are forever grateful to her. We just have her due date and christmas to get through now but we know we will as Shelby will always be around us,to help us through our lowest days. We guess all we can say now is to Shelby Rose,we love you so much,never forget that. Lots of love mumm,daddy and the rest of the family xxxxx
A song called Precious Child by Karen Taylor Good.
In my dreams, you are alive and well
Precious child, precious child
In my mind, I see you clear as a bell
Precious child, precious child
In my soul, there is a hole
That can never be filled
But in my heart, there is hope
'Cause you are with me still
In my heart, you live on
Always there never gone
Precious child, you left too soon
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart
In my plans, I was the first to leave
Precious child, precious child
But in this world, I was left here to grieve
Precious child, my precious child
In my soul, there is a hole
That can never be filled
But in my heart there is hope
And you are with me still
In my heart you live on
Always there, never gone
Precious child, you left too soon,
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart
God knows I want to hold you,
See you, touch you
And maybe there's a heaven
And someday I will again
Please know you are not forgotten until then
In my heart you live on
Always there never gone
Precious child, you left too soon
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart
"She who will not feel the warmth of the sun on her back,
Nor the rustle of the trees in the wind,
Will never know the beauty of the earth,
Now rests eternally with the angels,
Until we meet again"
Love you princess from daddy xxxx
my angel
My dear angel I hope you hear me when I speak out loud to you. You are never forgotten about and always have a place in my heart. I thought about you on your birthday and remembered you with a smile instead of tears. Your brother is growing so fast-he helps with some of the pain I feel. Trying for another sibling for you both-hoping it will happen soon. You wouldve been due this week-I wonder how you would look/act if you hadnt grown your wings early. I do hope nanna di and grandad tom and all the other family members are looking after you up there and you arent driving them mental :) one day we will all be the perfect little family but until then I just want to say I love you
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Tributes For Week Starting 3rd October 2011
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(")(='o'= )..All
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.(,,,,)^(,,,,)…..Precious
MONDAY
There's a special kind of feeling,
That's meant for you alone,
A special place within our hearts,
That only you can own.
TUESDAY
If only prayers were answered,
And wishes did come true,
Our only wishes with all our hearts,
Would be to still have you
WEDNESDAY
We send this special message
To the heavens up above
Please take care of our precious angels
And give them all our love
THURSDAY
I lit a candle for you today
May it's light reflect my love your way
Now I must go until next time
I will forever keep you, gently on my mind
FRIDAY
Your Reward by Violet King
The way may seem hard,
The road may be rough
To endure to the end
You have to be tough,
But try to stand firm,
Be positive too
Your faith can be strong,
And you will win through.
You won't be alone
No never my friend
The burden is shared,
Right down to the end.
Our Father in Heaven,
And Jesus, our Lord
Are waiting to give you
Your eternal reward.
SATURDAY
I Have A Place in Heaven - Unknown
Please don't sing sad songs for me,
Forget your grief and fears,
For I am in a perfect place
Away from pain and tears
It's far away from hunger
And hurt and want and pride,
I have a place in Heaven
With the Master at my side.
My life on earth was very good,
As earthly life can go,
But Paradise is so much more
Than anyone can know.
My heart is filled with happiness
And sweet rejoicing, too.
To walk with God is perfect peace,
A joy forever new.
SUNDAY
Heaven's Side - Alan Pemberton
When the storm inside is raging
When the night has trapped your fears
When the nightmare starts unfolding
When you cannot stem your tears
I shall see you in your sorrow
I shall feel your deep despair
Softly fold my arms around you
Let you know that I am there
I have passed the veil of knowledge
Leaving you with earthly gloom
Heaven floats and flows between us
Death is neither end nor doom
In the sunshine of our memories
Spun by silver thread so fine
Lives a picture of our loving
All is saved which is divine
Hold our love which is forever
Call me and I'm by your side
Trust the voice you hear within you
Sending love from heaven's side
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..♥…………...♥.Thoughts Today
...♥ ………....♥…Memories Forever
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….....♥.…♥….Angela ~~ Christopher’s
…...…..♥…Very Proud Mum
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ღ ღ ღ ღ All My Love Beautiful Angel ღ ღ ღ ღ
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*ღ.......ღ* *ღHeavenly *ღ.......ღ* *ღ shona sengupta. ..ღ*
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How will heaven be?
As far as I can see
It will have huge bells
And will be situated on clouds
It will have many golden wells
That will so often swell
Rain will be abundant
And the sun will shine all day long
Angels will play on the harp
The sweetest summer song
Music that will touch the heart
While those beneath will shed drops of sorrow
Little will they know what will happen on the morrow
But to them up above
As plain and clear it will be
As far as far as I can see
Yes there will be misty alleys
And lush green meadows
Fresh with the fragrant smell of spring
Winter will never be bitter
Summer never so hot
Autumn never so bare
And resources never so scarce
Food for all will be relished by all.
Grateful we’ll be as grateful can be
Mountains high and strong and brown
Surrounding that hidden land,
Beautiful and vast seas I see
There colour as blue as sapphire can be
And the white waves lashing upon the shore
Sitting on the flattened grey rocks
Who would not call it absolutely heavenly?
However it might actually be,
But can we still not see
There will lie behind this seen
A relieving feeling of bliss
For where not have we been
But is this not by all believed
That after one’s decease
This is the land of eternal peace
Where we all ultimately reach?
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♥ڿڰۣಌ Love Lives On Forever ♥ It Will Never Fade Away ♥ For In Our Hearts ♥ You Are With Us ♥ Every Moment Of The Day ♥ڿڰۣಌ Love Debbie xx
♩♪♫♬ HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU ♩♪♫♬
♫♬ HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU ♫♬
♫♬ HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR SHELBY♫♬
♫♬ HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU . ♫♬
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Hi Shelby how is it up there in Heaven? Are you having fun with your angel friends? Your little brother is fine-really cheeky and has a smile that brightens up the room-thanks so much for sending him. Did you enjoy the wedding? I know you was there to see your daddy and mummy get married. We wish you had been there in person but you was there in spirit along with grandma Di and Grandad Tom-hope you are behaving for them. Its coming up to christmas again-feels so wierd itll be the 2nd christmas without you but we will remember you with smiles on christmas day and if it snows I'll know thats you saying merry christmas. Love you loads Shelby and I always will lots of love mummy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
When I thought of you today
I did not need to cry
Because I know up there you play
And on Angel wings you fly.
When I saw "the" dress today,
I did not shed a tear,
Because you wear a much prettier one,
One thats more golden each year
When I sang a lullaby,
To your brother Brody
I know you was there listening
I could feel you smiling down on me
When Im reaching my lowest point,
I know I will be caught
You will raise me up again
Teach me that life is too short.
Yes you may not be here in body,
But you are always here in soul,
And on my wedding day you will be there,
Making our family whole.
Shelby Rose I'll always love you
In my dreams I can mother you
Hold,kiss and comfort you,
In everything you do.
I love you baby girl-hope you are having fun with you Angel friends. Love you loads mummy xxx
Twinkle twinkle
Twinkle twinkle little star
How I wonder where you are
Up above the world so high
Like a diamond in the sky
Twinkle twinkle little star
How I wonder what you are
lots of love mummy xxxx
A Birthday In Heaven - Author Unknown
I heard you crying yesterday,
And felt your heart-sent love.
So I’m sending you this message
Now, from Heaven up above.
You’re wondering if I’ll celebrate
My birthday (way up here).
I know you’re missing me today
I feel your essence near.
God planned a special day for me,
He told me with a wink.
He’d ordered me a special cake
(It’s Angel food, I think).
Balloons will fill the streets for me,
They float up through the clouds.
And we have lots of friends up here
That make us laugh out loud.
There is a birthday carousel,
Jewelled horses ride the wind,
With music playing, oh so sweet…
The magic never ends.
I’ve made so many friends, you see
We laugh and play and sing.
We ride our bikes and play the fool
And sleep in Angel’s wings.
But we don’t blow out our candles here
Instead, they light the skies.
With love from your little Angel xxx
Special Angel Day - by Carmelle Gross
We do not need a special day
To bring you to our minds.
The days we do not think of you
Are very hard to find.
Each morning when we awake
We know that you are gone.
And no one knows the heartache
As we try to carry on.
Our hearts still ache with sadness
And secret tears still flow.
What it meant to lose you
No one will ever know.
Our thoughts are always with you,
Your place no one can fill.
In life we loved you dearly;
In death we love you still.
There will always be a heartache,
And often a silent tear.
But always a precious memory
Of the days when you were here.
If tears would make a staircase,
And heartaches make a lane,
We'd walk the path to heaven
And bring you home again.
We hold you close within our hearts;
And there you will remain,
To walk with us throughout our lives
Until we meet again.
Our family chain is broken now,
And nothing seems the same,
But as God calls us one by one,
The chain will link again.
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